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long distance rela ... i think my bf might be cheating!!!
Hi, so my bf n i r in a long distance rela for the past 4 months n sometimes we fight n sometimes we r amazing but there r something i rll dont like. the first time we had a major fight was because he was being kissed by a rll hot girl on his cheeks .. since i m new to long distance i over reacted ... m sure every gf would react like the way i did ... n then there was another pic of the same girl kissing him again .. n m like ... ok not gonna react watever ... this morning there is this pic of his group .. while she has her hands on his shoulder from his back ... as a gf i dont know what to say ... m rll pissed .. dont want to say anything that ll cause a conflict .. maybe to him its nothing but if he found a pic like that of me with another guy he ll be soo pissed .. so ... i wanted to know how i should react?? do u think he might be cheating ... its always the same girl ... n there r soo many pics of thatg girl with him ... ?!!!
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I think you should just tell him straight up that you don't like that this girl is doing all these thing and then find out if she is a friend of his. Myself, a girl has lots of guy friends so if my bf doesn't like me hanging out with my friends I would be disappointed. With that said, if she is just a really good friend of his, ask him questions like 'how long have you known eachother?' Or 'do you see eachother a lot?'. The answer to these questions will let you know if you are overreacting or not. Maybe they only spend a little bit together so they take pics when they have the chance or maybe she has known him for longer than you, you never know.
Ask him about her, then see what his intentions are with her. Would you like it if your bf told
you you couldn't hang out with a best friend that was a guy? I wouldn't think so. If he tells you she's just a friend, you are allowed to ask him if he ever thought of cheating on you... If he pauses for over a minute or looks away, the possibility is there. But he may also just be wondering why you'd ask him that. In the end, the only way to fix this is to let him know it bothers you. If he's a loyal bf he will let you know he just took a few pics with her and you have nothing to worry about. The worse you can do is overexamine a situation, so learn the facts and then work it out. Odds are, he's not cheating and he just has a friend that's a girl.
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