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Increase my sex drive?
Hi, I'm 20 and my boyfriend has a sex drive so much higher than mine. He really tries to retain himself and I appreciate it loads and I try to convince myself to be in the mood but in all honesty I very rarely think "I need sex." -In fact I never think that.
I mean, I enjoy sex when it's happening but I can't seem to get myself ready, maybe because it always hurts me at the start (I'm not a virgin and we have done plenty of foreplay but it always seems to have a bit of a sting regardless, after a few seconds it feels much better though). I don't want this to ruin my relationship as I love him greatly so is there anyway I can increase my sex drive for him? so I'm ready whenever he is??
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My gf said its uncomfortable if I go in too quickly, or before her parts have had time to 'get ready'. We found that just increasing the foreplay helped. Me giving her oral was a huge help.
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If you are on a birth control pills, that may be part of the problem. The other part of the problem is fear of initial penetration and the pain you feel.
Both of these problem could be resolved with a visit to your gynecologist. A simple change in your birth control medication may allow you to increase your sex drive.
Then discuss with your doctor the pain you feel upon penetration. Not being a women I can't be certain if this is normal or not. So be prepared to discuss the size of your boyfriends penis, especially the head. Their is nothing to be embarrassed about in talking to your doctor about this or anything else effecting your sex life. I'm sure your doctor has heard it all before. The only way the doctor can help you is if you supply all the pertinent information.
Until you see your doctor you might try some KY jelly on the opening of your vagina or the head of his penis. This may make the initial penetration easier on you and less painful.
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