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Everyone's falling out with me?
Well my group of friends is split into two houses, me and some girl and the rest (2 more girls and 4 boys) live at a hose down the road. My house mate hates my boyfriend and has done for the year and a half since she heard his name, she never speaks to him or gives him a chance when he has made an effort to at least attempt some form of friendship, she is just rude and repeatedly tells him to fuck off and forbids him from entering our house. I believed he was friends with my other friends, so we often went to that house except one of the girls who is quite frankly a pushover and has been sucking my housemates ass the past few months, started msging me saying neither me or my bf are welcome in their house. Once again I asked what he had done to upset her and she said nothing. At the time she was upstairs texting me from her room, I was downstairs with 2 of the boys and asked them if I should leave. They said to ignore her and stay because she wasn't even in the room and they were enjoying our company. So we did and soon enough there was a party in full swing so we stayed a while longer enjoying ourselves.
the next day I get told I'm such a shit friend for bringing "someone like him" around my friends, she said everyone hates me and I piss everyone off then deleted me off facebook. Can't say I'm upset because she hasn't bee nice to me once in 6 months and I was always making the effort...
I asked the rest of the house if she was telling the truth and they all said no as I expected, but then she calls me a liar that I hadn't spoken to everyone and those I did were just too polite to tell me to my face. Surely if I wasn't welcome to a house they wouldn't make me feel welcome though?
I don't know what to do anymore. I don't want to leave my boyfriend just because they don't like him for some reason. They started making up terrible stories about him attacking them which I KNOW isn't true because they are never alone and he is always with me, my guess is that was their attempt at turning the boys who enjoy his company against him.
I don't care loosing these 2 friends as they have never treat me like a friend imo, but I am worried they'll turn everyone against me and I'll be alone :/ And I can't talk to other people about it because they feel like I'm involving them in the argument... but the other girls can say what they want... I hate this situation and I can't even move out! I'm trying to take the high road but it's really hard...
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Those girls are just being plain old rude and obnoxious. They might just be jealous or just real.. without cursing... jerks. If your friends are truley your friends, dont fright! Your true friends will always have your back.
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