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College boy problem
I am 18 years old and I found this guy up here who made me feel amazing. He was always there for me and we did everything together. I was so happy when I was around him. We talked for about a month and nothing ever came up about dating. I wanted to date him so bad but he never said anything about it, so I just dropped it. We started getting into arguments and he was lying to me pretty bad so I ended it. Well I still love this guy. He was my first love. Everyone told me that ever since we stopped talking he started smoking week and taking pills. He also isn't showing up to any of his classes. I didn't belive anyone but I'm starting to think it's true. I can't get away from him so I started texting him again and we have been hanging out recently. We were supposed to hang out the other day and once again he didn't show up to class and won't reply to any of my messages. No one knows where he went. I worry about him so much and I wish I knew what to do. I love him.....
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Do what any good friend would and call or text and ask to talk face-to-face at school. Tell him you are greatly concerned for his well-being based on him never being at school and rumors he has issues with drugs.
Tell him what he means to you and that if he really does have a problem that you want to do all you can to help him. As far as hanging out goes until you know what really is going on do so in groups and away from parties but if he reaches out for help give it. Let your parents know about him and see what they can do to help you if he's hooked on drugs.
Sometimes we fall in love with the right person but at the wrong time if that makes sense. when he's sober he's right but when he's not it's not good for a relationship. If he straightens out maybe pursue that but for now be a person who is there if he needs help and use your gut instinct on how to deal with him as things unfold. He may be the right guy but not at this very instant for you.
Sometimes if you love someone you have to let them go for a bit in a scenario like this and see if time and a change in a bad situation leads where you want it to and sometimes you lose someone entirely. Be prepared for any of these things as right now until you talk one on one and ask for honesty you don't know what you have on your hands.
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