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I need help, my boyfriend wants to kick me out?
My boyfriend and I have been on and off for two years, I lives with him as long as we were dating. he thinks I'm annoying and controlling, which I can be at times but it's only because he lies and cheated on me before. So naturally I worry. today he comes home after he ignored my calls and texts all night, oh and I didn't know where he was or what he was doing but he promised he'd come sleep at home which never happened, but he comes home today and says in order for us to fix how we are I need to move out. I think he's cheating or plans on keeping me tied down till he finds someone else help?
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Maybe you should talk to your boyfriend before you really do have to move out. I can sense there is some miscommunication going on, especially since you do recognize that you are controlling. But here's the thing, if he has cheated on you before, and he really has stopped cheating on you, and you told him you forgave him, then you cannot and should not be as controlling as you say you are, whatever the past has been. Once you've said you've forgiven him, you should not bring it back up again, verbally or silently. The last thing that should happen in order to fix the problem is for you to move out because that would just make things worse. If you suspect something is going on, turning to other people won't help you. You need to turn to the one who is causing you the problem and fix it with him. He is your boyfriend, and you shouldn't be afraid of him. You need to have a serious, calm conversation with him in order to fix your issues.
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