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mostly GUYSSS ANSWER--do you think He Likes Me or No?
14/f almost 15 but this guy who i've known since like elemtary school, beleive it or not i've never really talked to him maybe a sentence or two whatever but now we have like every class together and all of a sudden he just started talking to me and hes cute so we started talking and i like him AS A PERSON not the other way, at least not now. and now he'll keep trying to talk to me first, and he always stands in front of me of where im trying to walk in class and he knows that i hate that, or sometimes when im talking to my friends he'll just come over and like jump in and insult me, and my friend goes you can't just come over here and start insulting her it was pretty funny though. or especially he mocks me. im like your are so annoying but we were joking like that. and we were walking through the halls together and i would try to go in front of him and he would step in front of me, basically he just does things to annoy me! and i get really annoyed quickly. and sometimes when im sitting in class he sits diagonle behind me i can feel him staring at me and its kinda weird. i mean i like him as a guy friend but i get the feeling he likes me more than a friend. I feel like he’s always trying to make conversation/small talk but he ends getting nervous ( at least that’s what It looks like) and he just blurts out random things when im like ok?? Haha he’s always trying to get a rise out of me and make me laugh or get me annoyed at him and I don’t know why? Haha but im not sure if he likes me like that or just as a friend. Also whenever I feel him looking at me I look at him and ask him like what? Or what are you looking at? And he just smiles and goes back to his work, again to get a rise out of me. kinda confused what do you think? Or GUYSSS answer would you say that he likes me?? thankss
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Usually I wouldn't jump to conclusions but seriously?? It's pretty obvious he likes you. Maybe you'll end up liking him back if you stop being awkward around him. Being friends is one thing but denying having feelings for your friend is another. You wouldn't be talking about him if you cared so much, you wouldn't be posting your problem online if you didn't care about him so. Deep inside, you do have feelings, just don't deny it.
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Yes.
That answers your question, but I get the impression that you want to know why. As you more or less predicted, he gets nervous. When people get nervous (especially people with few social skills, such as many 14/15 year-old boys) they tend to resort to sarcasm and mocking and petty things of that nature.
He wants your attention, and even if it's not the exact kind of attention he wants, it's better than you ignoring him.
You also didn't ask what to do, but I'll quickly go over that. It depends on what direction you want things to go. Do you want him to just stop, do you want to be friends (but nothing more), do you think you may be interested in him in the future.
If you want him to stop, just ignore him to the best of your ability. His intention is to get your attention. If he doesn't get it by acting like this, he'll try something else (which you may find more appropriate) or just give up.
If you just want to be friends, you can let it keep going on, but you need to make sure he understands that you aren't interested. You can just tell him flat out, or you can flirt with other guys in front of him to let him know you aren't focused on him.
If you might want a relationship with him in the future, make sure to let him know that how he's acting is a turnoff. Say something like, "I really hate immature guys" when he's around. Then, when he does stuff like that, say "wow, that's really immature". He'll eventually pick up on it, but you may have to repeat it a few times.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
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