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I don't know how to talk to him.
Hello, this is going to be silly because I am 18 and a freshmen is college but there's this cute boy that I see everywhere and I want to get to know him and talk to him but I am so socially akward that I just can't. There are these cool guys who tight rope, he ties his rope between two trees, gets up on and does tricks on it; flips and balancing on his palms. I usually get dinner and then go out and watch because they usually set up around 6:30. Two nights ago, I was sitting on the curb watching these guys, the cute boy walks past me to go to the dining hall and looks at me while he passes. He then turns back around to go back to his dorm, I think he forgot something, looks at me again as he passes. The third time, he passes he walks by, looks at me, says hey and smiles, I say hello back but he kept walking making the start of conversing impossible. I saw him the next day walking back from class, I'm not sure he noticed I was right next to him or not but he was on his phone so I wasn't going to try to talk to him anyway. I just don't know what to do, I'm fine talking to girls about random things and just chiming in on conversations but with him it's different. Please don't answer and say "it's okay, just talk to him, it'll be fine" because that's the whole reason I am writing this because I can't just walk right up to him and be like "hey cutie what's your name?" Haha, so please, any advice from guys on how they feel or girls that are like me in these situations, any help would be much appreciated.
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Well sense you don't want go up to him I guess the only thing you could do is wait for him to talk to you! Him saying hey was a good thing if only you said hey to him when you see him like he saw you then maybe if he looks at you to see if you say somthing else you could start a conversation! If he doesnt its fine! If you really like to watch him them tight rope and think its cool maybe complement him on tight rope or something always seem interested he might like you but he might think your not interested. He might slowly come to talk to you more! I know it's hard to talk to someone you like I experienced it myself but it's always good to start as friends maybe he'll start to like you later on it all takes time! Just try your best to start a conversation maybe friends can help you talk to him! All you need is to feel confident! Trust me if he never comes up to you he might be shy some guys get shy you never know! If you choose not to go up to him then wait for a good opportunity!
Good luck!
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