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Prom and This Guy
Me and my sister and really good friends with this guy named Sam. I actually was originally friends with him, and me ad him really hit it off. Yes, ill admit i thought he maybe liked me, because we hung out everyday after school and texted everyday too.
than he met my sister. MY TWIN
so my sister is kinda flirting, and soon i realized he is too, so there was kinda a "love" connection between them.
At first i was sooo hurt because i thought me and him had something, but now i realize that i only like him as a friend.
However, i won't lie, it still bothers me to see Sam and my sister together.
I know that deep down, i really only like him as a friend, but every time he picks to talk to me over my twin, I get excited.
So last night he told me he is thinking about asking her to Prom, and that made me pretty upset. I don't know i mean, I was friends with him first, and for some reason they becoming friends kinda upsets me. Maybe because she gets most of the attention. Maybe because I am worried how they're "love" relationship can possible affected me and Sams.
Im not sure.
What should i do?
How should i feel about this.
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I think that you should talk to your sister about this. You're twins after all. Tell her about how you feel. It will help to get everything out. You're not being silly or crazy or anything. Be happy for your sister and tell her that you don't want her to avoid going out with him because of you. She and Sam are going to do what they're going to do, but your feelings are probably important to your twin, right? If anyone will understand you, it's her. Tell her all of your thoughts and fears. She'll listen and it will feel so, so good to clear the air. Again, though, don't expect anything to change or anything to happen because of this conversation. It's only fair to tell your sister how you feel and it's fair to want her to not go out with him, but it isn't fair to expect her to change her mind because it makes you a little uncomfortable. Tell your sister how you feel and then let things play out how they will. You're young, even if she goes out with him, they're probably not going to be together for very long. Support whatever she does and she should do her best to respect your feelings back. She can't respect or be sensitive towards what she doesn't know about, though, so make sure you tell her! Good luck! :)
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