Trust me, if someone likes you back they will take the invitation. This way you don't embarrass yourself and it's less of a letdown as they didn't directly turn you down.
As far as telling someone goes NEVER let friends know anything about who you like nor have them tell the person. That's a clear way for things to implode. Do it yourself and just tell the truth. All they can say is yes or no and at least you will know where you stand either way. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
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