Question Posted Thursday September 6 2012, 6:28 am
Hi, iam Keerthi i really want to die because no one cares for me...my husband even my parents also doesn`t care for me... pls suggest me a way to die
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? rainhorse68 answered Thursday September 6 2012, 10:43 am: Hi Keerthi. Sorry, I've got no intention of writing a suicide instruction book for you. Firstly are you sure they do not care? What are you basing the belief on? Their words? Their actions? Parents do not abandon their children lightly, or for no good reason. Husbands? Not without a reason, although the reason may not be good in any sense other than 'good for them'. If there are definite causes, don't run away from them. Face them. Seek definite solutions. Talking may not solve them, but not talking DEFINITELY won't. Assuming the worst case, you're estranged beyond any hope of rescue. You need to re-invent yourself entirely. We all want to be loved, valued and wanted. But cards on the table, you don't NEED anyones approval, or love. You don't need permission from any other soul to live. The sun will still rise tomorrow, you'll carry on living. And there is hope. Not a delusion, or a superstition. Nature cannot and will not tolerate a vacuum. Something will fill the spaces even if you don't want it to. Prove it. Clear a few square yards of ground, back to bare soil. And just forget about it. It's ridiculous to believe it will stay like that isn't? Even if you don't tend it, sow nothing, plant nothing, SOMETHING WILL GROW. As with nature, the same with human nature. You can no more sustain constant misery than you can constant happiness. Having no religious conviction at all I can't say suicide is 'sinful'. Nor do I hold any belief that there is an unearthly paradise waiting for us after death. Or that there is any re-incarnation. But while we live there is CONSTANT CHANGE. Nothing and no-one who is alive is not subject to this constant change. Even the very earth is still a 'work-in-progress', still in a state of change. Death simply closes us personally to all further possibility of change. Hang in there. CJ-B [ rainhorse68's advice column | Ask rainhorse68 A Question ]
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