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How do me and boyfriend get each other in the mood?
Hey guys sO I had a question. Me and my boyfriend of 6 months do not make out because his spit is to thick and mucusy it's absolutely disgusting. And I can't do it. So how can we get to the point to have sex if I can't even do that? And I he very self conscience. Does anybody have any advice for me to build self confidence about my body and so that I can be good in bed. Thanks so much!!
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Most people are self-conscious of at least one facet of their physique and the first time they have sex with a new partner it'll become a big issue for them. Or should I say BEFORE the first time. You'll become more confident each time, and the more confident you are the more sexy you'll feel & act, which will increase your confidence ...and so on. A not-so-good encounter or two can knock your confidence back a little. Guys have very fragile egos in this respect. Worse than you! If he makes some deliberately hurtful comment about your looks or performance you've really got start to wonder if you should be getting this intimate with him at all. Which brings us to the first bit. If there's something you're finding 'disgusting' (your word) about him, and it's holding you back from far less intimate acts than full sex, you are going to have to work hard to overcome this. And I mean REALLY hard! When you're considering sex with a new partner you really should be pretty crazy about each other. Pretty nervous, a few self-doubts and anxieties...fine and natural. But I'm not convinced 'disgusted' should come into the mix. You might want to stop and think about a few things now rather than later. Good luck whatever you choose.
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