|
a girl with an annoying family that hates me and I don't know why
Things are hard for us because of her family,, she's not allowed to date or see any guys till she's done with school... If her parents find out then they'll make sure that we don't have any contact with one another... Her brother hates me and I don't know why and I know he'll do anything to keep us from being together. Having a dinner with her family will only complicate things more because they'll make sure that we don't see each other anymore... I'm going to college next year which means that I must wait for a whole year for her,, and that worries me because I know men and I'm afraid that she might meet someone else... This is my one true love,, I've been through many relationships and none of them has ever meant this much to me.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
You have to tell her these things. She's scared too. This could be why she's running away from you & want to end things. She's afraid of getting caught. It can also be because she loves you so much that she's afraid of what they will do to you. She can be protecting you. You have to let her know that no one can tear you guys apart. Tell her your going to fight for her. I know you don't want to approach her family and talk to them but honestly you should.
My friend didn't want to tell her mom about her two years relationship with her bf because her mom didn't like him because she thought he wanted sex from her which wasn't the case. I told her the same thing im telling you. Keeping it a secret is much harder than telling them. She took my advice and her mother sat down with both of them at dinner and accepted the relationship. She was brave and positive in her love now you have to be too.
Yes your scared but you have to think like this. Your not going to get anything proven by sneaking around. You have to stand up for the BOTH of you & tell her family that you love her that your not there to hurt her. If they try to keep you guys apart then fight that too. Honestly like i said LOVE is worth the fight and sometimes the wait, but NEVER EVER give up on the one you can say is your heart and soul
:)
]
More Questions: |