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Two guys, and me. I love them both.. But need help.
This is a long one, so bear with me.. I'd appricate if you'd read it though, because I really want to hear your views...
When I was 4 I started visiting a beach and made friends with a guy called Finn, he was 3. Every summer I travelled down there and spent the time with finn, One summer when I was 5, I met his Cousin, Louis. We had an instant connection, a chemistry, that everyone saw but us. As we grew up, I began to realise it. But, seeing as we lived far away, I moved on, and tried to forget him.
Summer 2011, I met a Guy called Ash and we started dating, for 5 months, it ended when he went to college and started to neglect me, at this time, I started texting Louis, and after a month or so, we got together, just one night we kissed under the stars.
3 months ago I started seeing Daniel, he was everything I could want, I was happier than I'd ever been before, I truly loved him. He was beautiful, clever and breathtaking.. We broke up, because we lived 30mins from each other.. There was tears, and yelps, and I sunk into a deep place for a while.. But Daniel kept saying I love you, we kept in touch, carried on like before. When I came back from holiday, I told him I still loved him.. But In the 2weeks I'd tried to move on, Louis fell for me. I love Daniel, but theres still the 30mins between us.. I ache for Louis, but I cant leave Daniel..
I havr no idea what I need to do, because I'm still in love with the wonderful person Daniel is.
Please. Thank you, I appricate it..
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This may not be what you want to hear, but I think that it's the right thing to do. You should take a break from all of them for awhile. It doesn't have to be long - just long enough for you to decide what you want to do. You need to take some time by yourself to clear your head. Only going off of what you've said about these guys, they all seem great and I wouldn't be able to tell you which one to choose. You know them deeply, which means that you are the best person to make this decision. If it's too much to think about right now and you have no idea what to do, time is what will really help. Try not to talk to any of them for awhile - tell them that you want to take some time to think about your life and what you want to do. It may only take a week, it may take a month, or you may even find someone else that's even better. You never know, but what I do know is that you should take a break from all of them and give yourself the time you need to figure all of this out. Good luck!
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