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Took her virginity
I have been dating this girl for a couple months now and took her virginity. She said she doesn't regret having sex with me, but regrets the decision she made due to her religious views. I can see the sadness in her eyes and it kills me. I have this sick feeling in my stomach as if I should have not let this happened. I really like her but now I feel as if I will always be the guy who she relates to the bad decision she made. I really dont know what to do.
Ive attempted comforting her and making her feel better, in which I do believe I did help her out a little bit, but I still feel sad that she is disappointed in her self.
What can I do?
How can I help her?
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Just be there for her. Make sure you talk when she wants and express your understanding. She's confused because shes been taught that sex is wrong and its hard for her to justify things to herself. Make sure she knows that you are there for her no matter what and that if she doesn't want to have sex again, you'll still be there.
You'll do great, obviously youre important to her and you've got to make sure she knows how much she means to you! Good lucky!
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