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brothers friends are pervy??


Question Posted Sunday July 29 2012, 10:25 pm

Okay so, I have a brother named joseph who is 16 and I'm 15. His best friends names are slaid and ryan and they're over all the time! I've known them since I was like 4. So this all started about a month ago. They were over and me, slaid ryan and joseph were all watching a movie. Joseph went upstairs to make popcorn and slaid and ryan were just staring at me. Then ryan said, "woah kennedy, you've grown up nice." And I was confused so slaid was like "yeah, you got super hot! And your tits are so....big!" And ryan said, "yeah I never get tired of staring at those !" And I was like. "Guys, stop..." and ryan was like "oh hahaha are we embaressing you?....well you look super cute when your blushing." Then he leaned over and started kissing me while his hand was going under my shirt. When I tried to pull away, I tripped and landed on the couch where they were sittingand he grabbed my waist and started kissing me again . Then we heard joseph coming down the stairs so ryan got off of me really fast and acted like nothing happened. After a while slaid was like, "hey ry, I think its my turn. Joseph can you go get some drinks." So when joseph went upstairs again, slaid pulled me on his lap and started kiss me and rubbing my boobs. And I punched him and told him to get off but he wouldn't . And then he started to take my shirt off so I screamed . Then jo rushed downstairs and I ran up to my room before he could ask what happened. Now the boys always look down my shirt or grab my boobs. And whenever josephs not around they grab me and start kissing me or grouping me . And they always text me things when were all togehter like, "I'm staring at you boobs" or "let's fuck" to embaress me. I want them to stop because its weird but it actually doesn't bother me that much . I think I should tell me brother though....how should I tell him???

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adviceman49 answered Monday July 30 2012, 10:54 am:
What was happening to you was a sexual assault. It is a form of rape. You said STOP. Stop means STOP especially when it comes to matters of sex.

What I would suggest you do is tell your parents what has happened. Your brother could back up only part of what you will say happened. The two boys will probably deny everything. The fact that they will makes no difference to me as a parent or as your father if I were your father.

The first thing I would do is ban those two boys from the house unless you mother or I were home or maybe ban them from the house all together. The next thing would be to have a serious talk with their parents. I might even talk with the police.

The one place you should feel absolutely secure is in your own home. They violated you and the security you should feel in your own home. They need to be held accountable for this.

At the moment I am getting more and more incensed as I write this. Enough to say I now feel the police should be called as they have committed a crime by attacking you. Yes they attacked you. They may have thought they were teasing you but they crossed that line when they first laid hands on you.

You need to tell your parents. From what you have written your brother did nothing wrong here. He came to your aid when you screamed. His friends probably told him they were teasing you. As I said the teasing stopped and the violation of law started when they touched you and you said STOP.

So tell your parents and I suggest it be made a police matter, by calling the police and letting them handle it.

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