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why am i having so many boners around girls?
Im a 13 year old boy one day at school. It was morring i walked to my locker. I had this strange thought about sex. I get to my locker i see the girl i have been crushing on since i saw her. And i say hey and all the suddent i had a boner. Ans i want to know why ive been having those so much when im around girls.
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You are because of puberty & hormones. Happens to all 13 year olds, it is normal. I guarantee it is happening to all your friends too
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Getting erections around girls at your age is normal. It is involuntary response caused by all the new hormones from puberty. Many of the erections you get during the day have little to do with sexual thought or visual stimulation and everything to do with hormones. This is something everybody your age has had to deal with as they go through puberty.
The only suggestion I can make is to wear baggy pants or learn to carry your books in front of you while in school and you have an erection. Fact is most girls will know why you are doing this and they will still giggle. A little secret; girls nipples get hard for the same reason and sometimes depending on the bra they wear there nipples will poke through their blouse. Not quite as obvious as when us guys get an erection but it does allow us to sort of giggle back at them too.
In time your hormone levels will stabilize and you will gain control over your erections. Until then you, like the those who have had to deal with this before you, will have to learn to deal with it.
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