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feeling jealousy and discontent


Question Posted Wednesday July 11 2012, 2:39 pm

i was very very deeply hurt by a person 4 years back ,i have no contact with him for past 2 years,but now i heard that he got ms orthopaedics in good college,on hearing this i felt jealousy and unhappy,sad.i am 25 years old.i am from india.i am doing md community medicine .initially i was content with my career but now i felt discontent by comparing with him like that he will earn more money,he will get more recognition,approval than me.need advice please

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carayotie answered Wednesday July 11 2012, 2:54 pm:
Id say that's definitely a normal reaction especially since he hurt you. Let's say he didn't hurt you then you'd wish him all the best right? Although it's difficult to not compare, try to remind yourself why you have chosen that career. If you were content with it before then I'm sure that this feeling of uncertainty and jealousy will pass. Just keep on doing as you are and try not to compare yourself to him or anyone else for that matter. Jealousy can only make problems if you let it :) Keep working hard and you'll get all of the recognition you deserve!

Xoxo take care!

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