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I'm talking to someone new..
I'm talking to someone new (dude), What do I talk about? We don't really now anything about each other? So, what can I say to not mess it up? & how can I like flirt a little, but not to direct..?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Ask about him to get to know him. There are lots of things you can talk about. some examples:
-sports - fave teams, does he plan any
-hobbies
-movies
-music
-fave places to eat food...this one could lead to an "I've never been there" type thing, which could lead to a date
-favorite school classes
-summer plans, vacations, etc
goodluck!! :)xx
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I had actually just written something along these lines in another post...
People, to one degree or another, like to talk about themselves and their interests and such. Not in a conceited, "it's all about me" kind of way, just general thoughts.
I would suggest anything that would encourage that, which will also help you to get to know the person better. It's easier if situational, but you can just randomly throw out the questions, too.
What do you like to do? Ahhh, fishing. What kind of fishing, ocean or fresh water? Do you have a certain type of fish that you like to catch? Stuff like that.
What do you like to do in your spare time? Motorcycle enduro, wow, tell me more about that?
What kind of music do you like? Ah, old school rock. What are your favorite bands? Favorite songs?
You don't mention age, but I assume that you're in school. If the same school, maybe something like favorite teacher, best subject, the endless student assembly or other common events that were either good or bad and might spark conversation, etc.
I hope that helps!
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