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Not going to work due to coldsore/lipinfection.


Question Posted Tuesday June 19 2012, 2:58 pm

Basically, I have severe cold sores that break out into lip infections that I am experiencing right now.

I can barely move my lips and speak because it is too painful, and I have dots that are growing on my lips while my lips are getting inflammated.

It's hard for me to eat, or even drink without having drool and spit running down as I don't have proper control of my lips right now, as they also twitch uncontrollably. Anyways, I work a part-time job as a student and I work today and tomorrow.

I called in yesterday and told them I don't think I can come to work today and I told them the reason why (albeit I could barely speak, and they could barely make out what I was saying). I made the effort to call others that were not scheduled to take my shift but no one wanted to. I called in today and told my boss and she started getting upset, and saying ALL I have is a cold-sore and that it's no excuse. I kept trying to telling her it's infected by entire lip.



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Additional info, added Tuesday June 19 2012, 3:04 pm:
Anyways, she said that one of the people that is the store manager (coming 2nd to the store owner) is closing tonight (as a means to scare me I suppose), and I said okay, and I still can't come.

And I got a doctor's note as well that I'm going to give to her. But I do believe I did the right thing choosing not to go to work. It's uncomfortable, it's painful, and I would not be able to converse with the customers, or even do simple things like sip out of my water bottle.

I would be working outside in the garden which is absolutely the worst thing to do with herpes since the sun will worsen the condition. I'm trying my best to prevent from turning into last year's outbreak.

Basically, I wanted to know your opinion. Since it is better to have an outside perspective.

Is my reason poor?
Oh, and I had another outbreak last year that I had to miss work, and when I walked in the store to show them so they could actually believe me EVERYONE cringed, and understood. I had yellow lips covered in crust, that had it's liquid seeping out every time I tried to move my lips.

I haven't ever called in sick besides this time, and the last year which was my first SEVERE outbreak (due to the dentist popping my cold sore, and spreading it all over my lips)
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adviceman49 answered Wednesday June 20 2012, 11:34 am:
What I believe really doen't matter, it is what your employer believes that matters.

In your favor is the fact you have a doctors note. Also Herpes, even if it is just the type that causes cold sores, is extremely contagious. If you touch your lips then touch a counter or something else where others could come in contact with that surface you can spread the disease. By doing so you could infect others including customers. This would not be good for her business.

I think you did the right thing by staying home. Your boss, if she is of your parents or grandparents generation, may not be aware of just what cold sores are and how an outbreak like yours can be a danger to others.

If I were you while you are home you can search the web for information to educate her to just how dangerous this outbreak is and how easily it can be spread. Maybe once she understands she will be more reasonable and understand that by staying home you were not only looking out for yourself but her business als well.

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