Whenever I feel horny or just plain bored, I'll randomly choose someone in my contacts (a guy) and meet up with them, whether its at a party or at their house, and I'll have sex with them. Sometimes, I can't control myself. The worst time was when I had my scholarship test. I was so stressed that sex was my escape. I had three different guys the night before. I'm only 15 and nearly every guy I know at school has slept with me. I'm getting known as the slut, and even the girls know about me. I dont like it. How can I stop?
Like alcoholics there is a program called sexaholics anonymus, sa for short. Below is a link to their websites locator page where you can search for meetings in your area. The home url is [Link](Mouse over link to see full location).
It is my feeling this is the best place for you to start to seek help for your problem. First it is anonymous, first names only. No one there will look down on you for all in attendance have similar problems. Second they can help you with what to do when you feel horny. Rather than search for a sex partner they will help you find other ways to overcome the horyness. It is similar to how they work with alcoholics when they feel the need for a drink.
No they will not turn you into a lesbian or a nun. SA, AA and NA follow a 12 step program that works extremely well if you follow and work the program. My brother in-law is 25 years sober following aa and through him I have met others who are sober just as long; so I know the program works.
Give SA an honest try. I believe this is best for you and only those you want to know need to know.
alexisgirlie answered Saturday June 9 2012, 10:39 pm: It's great that you realize you have a problem, and are looking to change the situation. I believe you need professional help for your sex addiction. They will teach you great methods of overcoming stress without sex. Good luck :) [ alexisgirlie's advice column | Ask alexisgirlie A Question ]
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