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Am I being pushy?


Question Posted Monday May 28 2012, 12:04 am

Okay, so I have a friend Dan that I didn't used to get along with at all until about a year ago. We became friends and talked occasionally, but it wasn't a close friendship. We were talking on Facebook last night about graduating and all, and the weird life transitions we're going through right now. After a few minutes we talked about the scary future and how everything we are up till now is coming into question and doesn't matter as much in the big picture. At that point, I said I think it was a good thing because I think we were meant for greatness. Now, I didn't mean to imply that he should agree with me but when you think about it, does it sound like I'm trying to force faith on him? We've had arguments about stuff like that before and that's why we didn't used to get along. He didn't respond to that message, maybe he went to sleep, but I want to get opinions because I'm afraid I've ruined a good thing by being pushy... I do have a reputation for being a Christian but I don't think I'm pushy. Thoughts?
Thanks y'allll :)


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Additional info, added Monday May 28 2012, 12:07 am:
Also, he is an atheist so by my saying we are meant for greatness, I hope i haven't offended him..

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carayotie answered Tuesday May 29 2012, 12:12 am:
I don't think he SHOULD be offended by it, and I wouldn't think that you're being pushy. If you feel that way, just be casual about it and be like "hey, my bad, I didn't mean to sound pushy or anything, I just mean't...." Keep it cool, and shrug it off. He won't make it a big deal if you don't make it a big deal :)

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