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makes me look bad


Question Posted Friday May 11 2012, 6:28 pm

so theres this guy i hooked up with a few time and like all of my friends and stuff know about it. were not exclusive or even nesicarily a consistant thing but basiclly he hooked up with my friend recently and i dont actually care like i dont expect him to be mad if i hooked up with someone else, but now hes been talking to me a lot lately and telling the rest of my friends that he prefers me over the other girl. does it make me look bad if i hook up with him again? im not sure if im suposed to be mad and be done with him.

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mindfulmema answered Wednesday May 16 2012, 2:18 pm:
I'm going to be real with you here. Through the eyes of this guy you are a piece of meat. He will say anything to have another "bite" of you. He hops around from chick to chick. You're just a number on his list. If you do not mind lowering your standards and settling for less, then hook up again. You asked if hooking up will make you look bad? It depends on the eye of the beholder. Society may find this acceptable and encourage it. But the truth is, every time you "hook up" you give away a part of your soul you can not get back. If you one day want to be wifey understand that men want women who respect themselves, have self-restraint and conducts themselves like a lady. Know that there is someone out there that will be with only you and cherish you like the queen you are. Let go off all the losers that try to come before him. (This guy is one of them.)

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