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What do you do, when you are learning that a friend is not so much a friend?? I have been friends with my daughter's father since high school. That has been since the year of 91... Now I have been a good friend to him through out the years, but he is an on & off kind of friend. I have feelings for him & always have, but he doesn't see me for some reason. He say he cares, but whenever he is going through something I have been there for him. He calls me we talk & we have good communication, but whenever he is involved wit someone he tends to treat me as if I am his convenience. He needs someone to talk to when things are not right in his relationships, but then when they are fine he doesn't want to be bothered. I am fed up & it is really making me not want to deal with him, but for my daughter's sake I must. What can I do to move pass this man that doesn't want to be a friend???
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I have an ex that is the exact same way, we don't have a child together but he acts the same way. I no longer have feelings for him but for years he would call me when he wanted something and he would constantly ignore me if it was the other way around. I guess the best thing to do is obviously talk with him involving your daughter but anything else having to do with his love life or personal matters don't talk about it. Don't be as open with him and don't let him use you as a punching bag. Let him know you're not his doormat!
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