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Confused, conflicted...
So...suppose you met a guy, and this guy has a girlfriend...but he seems kind of flirty with you...he finds that you both have a lot in common, makes sure he gives you a big hug before you say goodbye, he calls you on the phone often...and then he asks you to go get coffee with him...okay, this is where it may become an incredibly stupid question...does that necessarily mean that he's attracted to you? Or is he just a very friendly guy? I have absolutely no clue how his current relationship is going...and I don't want to ruin it either. I would be very jealous if I had a boyfriend and this was happening. But the really bad thing is that I am extremely attracted to him, and I do catch myself wanting to be with him. But the last thing I want to be is a 'homewrecker'...and then I ask myself, 'is he just being really friendly'? Uuugh, my heads a mess! Helllppp!!!!
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This guy is probably interested in you, but at the same time really values your friendship. I found myself in a similiar situation a few months ago. Ask him about his girlfriend and see what he says. That's also a good way to see how he treats women if you're attracted to him. It's a sticky situation, so approach with caution! Just stay honest with yourself, and be honest with him. Don't be afraid to ask him questions.
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this guy seems like hes a little more friendly then the average person. you need to be honest with him you know he has a girlfriend and you dont want to ruin things. so tell him i dont want to get in the way of you and your girlfriend i want to make sure that meeting up with you isnt something your doing behind your back and that when we meet its only as a friend kind of meeting
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