He is keeping me a secret from everyone even though we are dating... what do I do about this?
Question Posted Monday May 7 2012, 1:27 pm
I am dating a guy i really like but he doesn't want to make our relationship public.. He uses other girls as his display picture and wall papers but he has never used mine... I want to talk to him about it but I don't want to seem overbearing
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? AMSxO answered Tuesday May 8 2012, 10:39 am: I think you should talk to him. What do you have to lose? if he's acting like it's not a relationship then you don't have a relationship to lose. Ask him, why he doesn't want to make it public and let him know that you actually want it to be public because a relationship isn't a relationship if you can't hold your loved one in public. Ask him, talk to him about it, and if he still keeps it private..it's time to find somebody who won't.
jr246 answered Monday May 7 2012, 4:07 pm: i was like him to my junior year for me was we were two different people she was the good hyper girl and i was those ill do watever i want and i kind didnt want people know so our relationship was hidden .one day i went over to her house we went to her backyard and just talk she ask tht same question well not the using some girl for cover but after we settle things the next few days the guys at school just smiled happily i felt a WHOLE better tht were finally holding hands and kissing in public and till this point on my life has never this great i mean i still what want but still live her when im with her so you should go talk to him if u want the way we did it dnt feel overbearing [ jr246's advice column | Ask jr246 A Question ]
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