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How can I do it? How can I do to build confidence and trust my boyfriend?


Question Posted Saturday April 21 2012, 11:57 am

How can I do to build confidence? I have a boyfriend I trully love,but I don't trust him at all,it's like I try to do it,but I just can't get it,I feel like I won't trust him ever again in my life,why is it so hard to trust again?What could I do?Thanks!!!

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adviceman49 answered Sunday April 22 2012, 11:58 am:
I think there is more to this question then you are telling us. Something has happened to you with a prior boyfriend or possibly this boyfriend that has caused you to put up your safety shield of trust. Without knowing what this is I am hard pressed to tell you how to go about fixing this.


If your current boyfriend is not the cause of your trust issues. If you do not see in him the cause of your trust issues then communicating to him what they are could be a good starting point in building a trusting relationship with him.

This is the best advise I can offer for the moment without knowing the other side of the problem. One other thing; we are not all a like. Just because one person has caused you to loose faith in him or her. That does not mean all people will cause you the same type of hurt.. Just something to think about.

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Horselover21 answered Saturday April 21 2012, 10:27 pm:
I know exactly how you feel. I had a boyfriend last year but it didn't work out because I didn't trust him. But I have learned that you just have ti let go and trust in him. Also, a good idea may be to tell him that you are having a hard time trusting him and you need to recoperate for a little. I don't want you guys to have a bad ending like I did so I hope everything works out fine and remember to let go! :)

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