|  | My question is about oral sex and diseasesI'm a girl, 14, and today for the first time I gave my boyfriend a blowjob. He's Kind of a player. He didn't cum in my mouth and wasn't wearing a condom. I came home and just found out about the risks of oral sex..I'm kind of scared ! Please help, thanks!
 
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 Maybe give some free advice about: STD Information?
 
 Not quite sure what you are asking, but just to confirm:
 
 You can get STDs orally.  From herpes to HIV.
 
 You will have to start a testing regimen.   Get tested immediately, then at 6 months.  HIV can go 10 years without showing up in some people, so plan on being tested for the next 10 years, just to be safe.
 
 Something that might also help you in the future:
 
 Herpes (both kinds) and HPV (genital warts/cancer/) infections aren't stopped by condoms.
 
 I wish they would put a big flashing sign up in sex ed classes and explain this to people before it is too late for them.
 
 Get tested, and do it again in 6 months.
 
 Most places only test for a few things unless you ask them to test for everything, so don't forget to ask.
 
 I hope everything is well for you, and this isn't a lesson you have to pay too dearly for.
 
 Side note: If he is a player, you will never be safe with him, you can never trust him.
 
 Please re-think that.  You can do better than him.
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