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Is it considered cheating?
Completely understandable. But the thing is I don't want him to be attracted or have feelings for him. Guys do get horny & must love anyone playing with their dicks. But I just don't know what to think. I love him to death & we both made promises of never leaving each other. I just really don't want him to think this is right forever. Like what's gonna happen when we're living together and have kids? But anyways..he likes when this guy does it to him. I want him happy. It just hurts knowing that this is occurring. I'm glad he told me, but I can't help it from bothering me..
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Sorry it took me a little while to answer this one. I was having trouble pulling up the site.
I'm sure he does love anyone playing with his junk. You know what I'd love? Not doing any chores ever again. Things would get gross fast, and my husband would be pretty angry if he had to start pulling my weight.
Just because you like something doesn't give you license to do it. If you like eating five pounds of chocolate for dinner every day, you could do it if you were on your own without harming anyone else. When you're in a relationship with someone else, though, they might resent the fact that they don't get to eat a proper dinner, or that you've ballooned to a size XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXL. See where I'm coming from?
I get that you love him. It's just not right for you to sacrifice so much because you love him, and him to not be able to keep it in his pants. If he can't be happy while giving this up, then he might have to give you up.
You're absolutely right about when you live together and have kids. That's why you need to set boundaries now. If it's bothering you, it needs to be addressed. No matter how much you love him, nothing is worth being cheated on for the rest of your life.
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