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Clueless about semen
Ive never given head before, which is pretty sad considering I'm 23 years old. But I'm about to try it for the first time and I don't want to look like a total noob while going down on him. So what are good tricks that guys enjoy? Also, how long will I have to be down there? Once he ejaculates, how much semen will be in my mouth? I'm so nervous that he's gonna know I have no clue what to do so all the advice would be greatly appreciated!! Thanks so much!
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whether or not that its sad depends on your perspective and societal norms. aside from that... semenal volume really depends on the guy, and several other factors- hell, one thing I noticed about taking weightlifting supplements was that I was dropping massive loads(I'm not kidding when I say 1/4 cup of semen at a time). so unless your boyfriend is a serious weightlifter, you won't have to worry about getting that much shot into your mouth. Though I must say, it is common courtesy for the guy to give his partner a heads up. Now as for technique, communication is key. its just like when he's going down on you(any guy who doesn't return the favor is an automatic douchebag), you'd tell him what feels good so he could keep doing it. there is no such thing as the perfect performance, because everybody is different in their tastes and pleasures.
have fun, stay safe, good luck
-Gunner
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I never really liked giving head until I started dating my current boyfriend. We've been dating for eight months and we're really comfortable about our sex life.
My boyfriend likes it when I surprise him most of the time. We'll be just relaxing and I'll lean over and whisper in his ear, "How about I give you a blow job?" he gets so wild when I do it. If you're not that comfortable with the person you're giving head to, then that's fine. One of the most important tips is to watch your teeth. It can really hurt a guy if you don't be careful, but some like it if you nibble on the skin a little bit. It's easy, really. Just start slow and suck slowly on his shaft, and see how far you can get it in your mouth. If you want, you can also use your hands while you give head. My boyfriend enjoys it when I put him in my mouth as far as I can go and lick the remaining length of his shaft and gently massage his balls in my hands. I don't really have any other tips, but I hope this helps! Good luck.
Also, I've never had anyone finish off in my mouth before, so I would not know how much semen you'll get if he cums in your mouth. It depends I guess.
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