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Bleeding after fingering
I started having sex when I was 15 with a guy I met and of corse he was my first so I bled. me and justin didnt last long so I decided im not having sex anymore till I find the right one. 5 and a half months ago I started dating andrew. He was a virgin at the time and I wasnt we started having sex 3 months into the relationship and I bled a little again I thought no biggy but now its like every time he wants to finger me it doesnt hurt while he is doing it but when he pulls his fingers out he has blood on them, and then im sore after words I feel embarrassed when it happens and makes me not want to do anything but he comforts me and makes me think its not a big deal but I dont know what it is... Is this normal?
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I'm not a doctor so I cannot give you a diagnosis as to why you are bleeding. There are a couple of reasons. One that comes to mind is that your Hymen never fully ruptured when you had your first intercourse.
If you had a full GYN exam since your first intercourse your doctor should have seen this and complete the removal of your Hyman. It is a simple office procedure. If you have not had a GYN exam I suggest you do so, for two reasons. First it is something every young lady should do on a yearly basis once she starts her periods. Second the bleeding you are experiencing is not normal and your GYN can find out why this is happening.
Since you are over 14 a Federal Law known as HIPPA protects your confidentiality when visiting your doctor(s). By this law you can make and see any doctor for most conditions and specifically reproductive health issues without parental permission. The doctor cannot tell mom or dad what you are being seen for or how and why you are being treated without you specific written permission. If the doctor or anyone in the employ of the doctor releases any medical information without your written permission they can go to Jail.
As for the exam itself mom cannot be in the exam room with you without your permission. This allows you to be totally open and honest with your doctor. Being honest with your doctor allows the doctor to properly treat you and is the specific reason for the clause in the law. Mom or an older sister or anyone else can't bully their way into the exam room with you. The doctor will not examine you with someone else in the room other than his or her nurse without your permission.
So if you have been putting of having these very important yearly female examinations for fear of mom finding out you have had sex. I have taken that fear away. You have protection under the law, so see a GYN and find out the what problem is before it does permanent harm.
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