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Best way to move on from someone you love
What is the best way to move on from someone who your incredibly still in love with?
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Hi
So I appreciate you must be going through a hard time-and moving on is also an incredibly hard thing to do.
Firstly well done for recognising that what you need to do is move on for whatever reason-you're already half way there.
Everybody has there good points and there bad points. Make a list of whoever this person is, of their bad points-it couldbe anything- you don't like what they said to someone, you don't like how they acted in a situation. The aim isn't to make you hate the person, but to make you realsie you can do better. And of course you can-they made yu feel like this and go to the trouble of seeking out advice on here did they not?
Also, once you love someone, if it is love you'll always love them. So it comes to be a problem in recognsing the difference between loving someone and still being in love with someone.
In the title of the question you say you love them, but in the description below you say you're in love with them. Whichever it is, in order to move on these intense feelings have to go. And they will eventually. Like this.
Join a club, take up a new hobby, go out with friends,excell at a talent whatever that is. Take you're mind off this person! In doing so, the new things in you're life will seem alot more thrilling and exciting, and you'll soon be bored of fantasising about this person, get exausted and want to move on.
Remember, this person can't be all that great if they made you do this, so I say whilst its hard to stop thinking about them totally, stop yourself every time you do, cos they may not be worth it. Good luck :)
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