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This seems really suspicious...
Before I ask for any advice, I should give you some background information. I'm 17 years old, my girlfriend is 18, and we are both still in high school, so I still live with my parents. Almost a year ago, my girlfriend decided that because she is bisexual, she was going to have sex with a girl at least once.
I don't know if I was stupid, or too lenient, but we talked about it and she ended up doing it - with the ONE person we agreed it WOULD NOT be, because the girl was a friend of ours and in almost all of my classes.
They're still good friends - if anything they're even closer - and my relationship with both of them suffered. I can't even stand to look at the girl anymore, and any time my girlfriend says or does anything even remotely related to the other side of her sexuality, I can't help but get pissed, which never used to happen.
Now, for a few days I'm 1600 miles away and I got a bunch of facebook notifications on my phone. Apparently they're spending the night at my girlfriend's house tonight. Even worse, the girl is currently "secretly" dating my best friend, who is lesbian and hasn't come out yet.
What I need to know is how I should approach this. What do I say? Do I act based on how I really feel? Or should I bottle it all up again and just hope she finally leaves? It's bad enough they're almost definitely doing this to me again, but they don't have the right to do this to my friend.
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Your girlfriend should respect that you asked her not to go with this girl that was your friend. You need to have sit down and explain to her that you accept her sexuality and fair enough she might be bisexual but she's with you and because she's bi her having this girl to stay round at her house and things is the same as your sleeping at other girls houses and it's wrong because their relationship isn't just friends if they've slept together in the past. Explain that you have good reason to be concerned and make it clear that your not disputing her sexuality but if she's with you she can't sleep with other girls just because she's bi it's still cheating. jsut make it clear you are threatened by the relationship her and this girl have after sleeping together and it's too wierd for you to accept good luck :)
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