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Does he have another girl?


Question Posted Monday March 5 2012, 5:24 pm

So back in November I met this guy named Marcus and we exchanged numbers and we talked literally from the moment we woke up to the moment either of us went to bed. And his college is 4 hours away from mine but over christmas break we were going to hangout. And we were pretty much dating without officially dating. But sometimes he would get cold towards me and we would fight kind of a lot but we ALWAYS talked through it and we ended up not hanging out over break, I got sick and had to cancel and I asked him if he still wanted to and he said maybe but never brought it up again so i took it as he didn't want to. So we both went back to school and it was a week later and I feel like he liked me more than he ever had before by the way he was talking. And then one day he got short and he was like I'm really sorry But I'm going to be really busy so Il text you tomorrow and he never did so i asked him and he was like please don't think I don't want to talk to you anymore because I do I'm just super busy with school. so i decided to get over him and it didn't work. I have never been in so much pain:( he texts me like once every two weeks and its just a short conversation nothing big or like it used to be. Do you think he found another girl? He also never had a girlfriend so maybe i was thinking we were so close and he got scared and just ended it. I don't know what to do I miss him:(

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Xui answered Tuesday March 6 2012, 1:13 am:
It's hard to tell


Being in college is hard itself never mind trying to juggle a relationship along with it. It could be maybe he does like you but the distant is too much for him. Long distant relationships generally don't work out, They are stressful and the added stress onto school is just not going to mix.

It could also be that he is interested in someone else, He could of met someone during break or even while he was in school. That I can't really tell you

Judging by how he says he is busy with school and the lack of texting and talking to you I'm going to assume the guy doesn't want a relationship or he may already be involved with someone. Either way, I would just move on and meet someone else. Try and avoid the long distance because that on top of college is doomed to fail. Find someone in your local area because Marcus is obviously not available.

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