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my boyfriend got another girl pregnant! do I stay with him?
i'm 17 and i was with this 21 year old guy on and off for a year, we broke up and he had sex with this girl that he's been hooking up with for three years and she's pregnant with his baby and is 100% sure it's his. he tried getting back with me before i knew and i found out by someone else and asked him and he admitted to it. him and this girl have no feelings for each other and he doesn't want the baby but she's keeping it, he loves me and i love him but if he really loved me would he not have hooked up with her in the first place? and is he just keeping me around to have someone there for him!? help do i stay with him?
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1, The guy is a package deal, He went and knocked someone up while he was briefly broken up with you. Sounds to me like he may of even cheated and by what you said I wouldn't really be surprised.
2, He didn't even tell you about it you found out from someone else. Clear proof that he was hiding something or didn't want you knowing about it.
Yes, I would say move on. The women that is pregnant of his child is now always going to be in the picture. The guy will be paying monthly child support etc. The fact that he didn't even want to keep the child should already tell you that he is heading for some serious trouble. Likely, He will be taken to court for possible unwillingness of wanting to pay child support in the first place. You being with him are only allowing yourself to be caught in the middle of his shit. The kid is liar and I think your best bet is to move on and find someone who isn't tied down and racked up in baby drama. Is he just keeping you around? Well, Isn't it kind of obvious? Think about it... Cut contact with him and move on and let karma do the job.
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