Question Posted Wednesday January 25 2012, 1:00 pm
My boyfriend an I have been together for a year and a half now. He can be very sweet and thoughtful. He always picks me up from work when I work late, which is a lot. A few weeks ago he said he was not going to pick me up just to see how I was going to react. Pretty much if I would get mad at him or still act lovey dovey. I was still the same. He is now complaining about picking me up and that pretty much he can't do it. I understand because its not his responsibility. He says the only time I am happy with him is when he comes to get me. Which is not true. When we hang out I always go to him. I am the one who always texts him. I call him on my break during work. He never calls me or texts me during his break at work. He makes me cry. Lately he has been acting rude. When I'm excited to see him I always want to hug him and he brushes me off and says he needs to do something first before. Even kissing him is something that has to wait.We play fight a lot but he takes it too far like putting his foot on my face, spitting on me, taking snot out of his nose and trying to put it in my mouth. It is all so disrespectful. I love this guy with all my heart. I just need to know if I'm doing wrong or what is going on because love is so blind and its nice to get a different perspective. Thank you/
Sometimes the best way to keep a spark is to give each other space. Stop texting him on your break, Stop acting so excited....See how he reacts from it. If he seems to be distant with you, Then maybe he is either loosing interest or clearly is no longer interested.
I would probably have a conversation with him and talk to him about it, If you want the truth you gotta dig for it. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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