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how to show a guy that I have changed and if he gives me another chance i won't be a lousy girlfriend?
so this guy i went out with last year broke up with me and no he likes me but he is not sure i changed bacause i was a lousy girlfriend and i have to find a way to show him i love him and that i have changed in like 4 days what should i do?? i like him alot...
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I am going to be blunt
You can try talking to the guy but a year is an awful long time to just try and appear back into someone's life. You left out detail-- Are you two speaking? Friends?
You don't want to seem like you are desperate nor just out to get attention. If you want him to see you've changed for the better then I suggest not trying to hard. You can chat up a casual conversation but don't come across as desperate or needy. Also, How do you know the guy doesn't have someone? Move on with his life etc?.......Make sure he is available before you go and try to talk to him. If he is with someone else, Then clearly he is over you. Also, People can't just change in 4 days, It's impossible. If you try and win him back when he is already with someone then you are only showing him that you are nobody but the same old person he previously dated. Also, To reappear randomly might give the guy the impression that you've been stalking him. Not trying to be an ass but I'm pointing it out from someone else view. What you said above sounds desperate and needy...
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