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my boyfriend keeps letting me down now i question his every move
Ive been in a serious relationship for a year now. We are both in love we've talked about marriage in the future and recently i have just moved in. He will go out of his way for me, lend me his car if mine isnt working, he tells me he loves me everyday, buy me anything i want. I know he cares about me and i care about him. However, it seems that lately he hasn't been as affectionate and will even push me away if i go to hold his hand or to lay my head on his shoulder. In the past i have found things on his phone and computer of him contacting his exes and even jobs in the adult film industry. He said the exes he was just being friendly an he would stop bc it was wrong. When i confronted him he said he wanted to do porn years ago but not anymore and people still contact him about it. he also claims even though he responds it means nothing. So i trusted him until i recently found another email and hes been looking up his ex on facebook. I want to trust him but it seems like this is a never ending cycle. Am I overreacting? What should i do?
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Sounds like he is loosing interest in your relationship
If someone is looking up their exes, Likely they aren't completely over their exes in the first place. If he is in a meaningful relationship with you and is happy with you, Then there should be no reason for him to even want to go crawling back to see how his exes are doing.
The porn, I don't know what to say on that one but personally if someone I was dating wanted to enter the porn business I think I'd be a bit concerned, Sounds to me your boyfriend is beating around the bush.
If he can't be truthful to you, Then your relationship isn't going to work. This guy has already proved to you once before that he can't be trusted. His lies are leaving you only more and more insecure and paranoid which you have every right to be. If I were in your shoes, I would start to think the relationship is at the end of your ropes and move on. A year is a bit long for someone to be lead on while the other keeps looking up their exes on facebook and after a second time around I'd start to think he's nothing but a joke. Find someone that appreciates your relationship and won't take you for granted.
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