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Why do I feel so attached?
18/f
So last night I hooked up with a guy. We didn't have sex, but we did everything else besides sex. Afterwards, we cuddled and he stayed with me the rest of the night. Before we hooked up we spent a long time talking and I felt a connection with him. Now I feel like I'm being "that girl" who becomes attached to the guy she hooked up with one night. I know things could never work out with us because we live pretty far away but I just don't know what to do. I want to talk to him, but I don't know if he wants anything to do with me. I just have been feeling so badly about myself all day and I just don't want to feel like this.
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Why do you feel so attached? Because you allowed yourself to get attached by having a stand with him beyond a friendship.
If you know it could never work out, Then accept it as it was and move on from it. Sometimes hooking up with people can come with consequences. While we tell ourselves that it will be nothing more then the title shit happens all the time. More then likely you feel like crap because now you have it enbedded in your brain that there was a connection that seems unlikely that it could ever work out.
You have two choices
1, You could try to talk to the guy and hope you can work something out but if it's long distant I don't really recommend it. (I was in a long distant for 5 years and in the end that is one of the main reasons it didn't work out!)
2, Accept that trying to have a relationship with this guy will never work and move on. Find someone that is more convenient to you and that is more a suitable partner.
If you don't want to be "that girl" then don't allow yourself to be her.
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