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I think I might be pregnant,I've only had sex once.
My boyfriend an I have been together for four months. He was the first guy I felt I truly loved. So I knew that one might when things started to go a bit farther, I was ready to have sex with him; he was my first and I was his first. It's been over two weeks since we has sex. I think I might be pregnant. I had that feeling that something was off, something was different with my body. My expected perio is in ten days. Usually I'd be ovulating on the 14th day of my cycle, but my last period was much shorter and irregular. I have recently gone through a lot of change in my life, so my irregular period and the symptoms of pregnancy could not be pregnancy but stress and mild depression. I'm terrified, I'm scared that this wil change our relationship. If I get pregnant at 16, does that officially mean that I'm a slut? What if I'm not pregnant? He said he doesn't want to have sex until we're older (which is honestly a good idea), but if we take out that amount of intimacy in our relationship, things might start going south. I love him, I'm scared, and I'm at the end of my rope.
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If you had your period after you had sex, then you are most certainly not pregnant, even if it was irregular.
After pregnancy it is physically impossible to have a period, as your body begins immediate physiological changes that prevent periods from occurring at all, though you may still get period like symptoms at first, such as nausea, dizziness, etc.
If you had sex after this last irregular period which you're talking about, then you may be pregnant. You cant be certain until you take a pregnancy test, or just wait for your next scheduled period.
If you become pregnant you are in no way a slut, regardless of what some people may think. For tens of thousands of years girls your age and younger have been mothers. It may end up being a radical change in your life, and its easy to see why it can be very scary. But it doesn't have to be a bad thing. Motherhood can be a wonderful thing, regardless of your age.
If you continue having irregularities in the future I suggest you contact your doctor, and if you find out your pregnant its important to have a talk with your parents as well as your boyfriend. If you end up not being pregnant don't let this scare you away from having sex in the future. Just use it as a lesson to always use protection until you are ready to actually have a baby with someone responsible and who cares about you and is willing to take care of both you and your child.
But really dear don't worry yourself to death over this. Everything is going to be okay either way.
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