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Distant Cousin Issues
SO it really isn't MY cousin but it's my sister's cousin(because we have different fathers)so any ways i really don't like her. It all started when she started problems with my family but cheated on her boyfriend with one of my actual cousins. My brother in law was blamed for telling the cheater's boyfriend the truth. At that caused the whole family to choose sides and I went with my brother in law because my sister's cousin was already getting on my nerves. But my mom and sister yelled at my brother in law a lot and now he doesn't live with us. Then I just plain out started disliking her. She was only suppose to live her for 2 months alone but now she has moved in with her boyfriend....then she brought home one whining baby that she had with her mother and now she has her 2 kids living with her! I can't stand it anymore. It feels like my mom and sister are her slaves, they drive her everywhere, take care of her kids and everything! She's always put in front of me. When I need to get picked up from school I always have to wait because they need to drop her off or pick her up first. It feels horrible. So if anyone bothered to read this....let me ask is this all in my head? Do I have no reason to be like this? What should I tell my mom and sister? They already know I don't like her. So thank you if you get to this point.
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It sounds like you definitely have an issue going on in your family! No, your dislike for your distant cousin is not in your head. You have a reason to feel remorseful about her because she had intruded on your family and made your life more difficult. It sounds like your mom and sister are a little bit afraid of her, so they'd cater to her needs whenever she wants and she probably knows this. Maybe you can work out a compromise with hour mom, sister, and cousin. If your cousin has any heart at all she probably doesn't want you to feel upset, the same goes for your mom and sister. Try telling them honestly how you feel and work out a compromise so you aren't t the one always waiting.
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