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first thanks, second, I find it hard to resist the impulse


Question Posted Friday December 23 2011, 6:50 am

hey there. Firstly, thank you for the suggestion. I knew it, and tried also. But failed everytime. Every single time. I find it hard to overcome the temptation to text him. It's embarrassing, I have never had a crush like this before. He is never gonna cheat on his gf, I know him. But I find it hard to not text/ call him. also, he is coming to my state in jan, I have started looking forward to meet him. I don't want to like him, and I don't want to crew up our friendship. I feel messed up. Sigh. what can I do about that?

PS- I have deleted his number many times, and now subconsciously memorized it. :/


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guhzmin answered Friday December 23 2011, 7:49 pm:
I know you still want to be friends with him, and it's going to be hard but if you want to make any progress you're going to have to put your friendship with him on hold until you can get over this crush you have for him.

I would first suggest talking to him about it (if you haven't already) and explain to him in the best way you can that even though you want to stay friends with him, you just can't shake these feelings off. Honestly the best way to get rid of it is to not talk to him. and if he's a real friend he'll understand and give you some space, which will in turn make it a lot easier for you to forget about him for a while.

I hope this helped a little bit~

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