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mistreatment


Question Posted Wednesday December 21 2011, 5:44 pm

Hi AdviceMistress!!thanks!!the thing is how do I do that?I´ve tried to leave him before but then I feel so bad and sad that I practically end up running next to him again,I know I´m being weak but it´s what I feel,it sucks!!!

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AdviceMistress answered Thursday December 22 2011, 9:22 am:
I was in a jam like that once and it sucks I know what you mean. You can't hide your feelings but at the same time you know that, that person is good for you. Cut off all ties with him. Block him fron FB, Twitter, any social network. Delete his phone number and what have you. When you think of him think of how badly he treated you and how you don't deserve that. Empower yourself. Listen to uplifting music and feel good movies. Really listen to the lyrics of the songs. Heck what I like to do when I'm going through something is put on my iPod and just blast and listen to the lyrics. Some good artists are Shontelle or even Kelly Clarkson. Be positive and be selfish because you're thinking more about him than you are yourself.
If he comes back close the door and don't turn back. Listen to "It's Too Late" by Carol King. It's a great song about moving on.
You are stronger than you know and you will get through this. Life is too short. If you ever fell the need to call him do something else to take your mind off it call a friend or watch a funny movie. Hang in there and Happy Holidays!

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