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Getting over the ex
Okk so I tried to contact him while I was back in our hometown and he ignored it and never responded. The problem is a bunch of mutual friends found out that I slept with my ex ex boyfriend..my ex and the ex before that hate each other and im paranoid maybe thats why my ex is ignoring me..like maybe hes pissed :( this is not normally something I ever would do.i just was desperately trying to ease the pain. (i know how stupid this was) and I was so drunk. :(the day after my ex texted me and said that he hadn't slept with or found any other girls he was interested in. I knowhuge coincidence cause there is no way he could know back then.
I feel so broken and like hes never gonna talk to me again cause he lost all respect or something.everyone around me says I am so much better off without him cause he didn't necessairly treat me like a princess.but I miss having him in my life and all the fun we used to have. I feel like the pain in the relationship was easier than the pain without him.i honestly just wish he'd come back:( please help..i know its best if I move on cause I don't want to have to beg someone to come back.i only want him to come back if he wants me still and still has that love.but by ignoring me,i think it shows he doesn't love me. :(
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Ok,
So by ignoring you, you don't know how he feels truly because he hasn't actually said it.
For him to want you back, you've got to make him feel like he needs you in his life. I appreciate that you were drunk on this night stand, everyone makes mistakes.For this I would obviously suggest keep your nose clean from now on.
This is something that my ex bf did to me, after dumping me and getting back with his ex the day after.
He eventually sent me a letter. I'm not back with my ex now but we are close, so it works.
So send him a written letter, as writing is more emotional and personal. As long as you say the following things then it should help him see you in a different light.
1)take responsibility for the break up, and totally agree with it.
2)Don't be full on, but try to get him to realise you see things from his view (i understand you'd have want to have broekn up)
3) make him nkow you've changed, just by how you write and write about your new zest for life. Write as if hes a friend.
Remember he contacted you so there is still SOMETHING there however small, so by doing this you can rekindle that flame aswell.
A letter is perosnal, to the point and he can interpret it slowly. Also, it's almost garuntted to get a reply. So go for it! If it doesn't get a reply, come back her in a few weeks for more advice. Persistence is key here!
Good luck :)
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