Question Posted Wednesday December 14 2011, 10:10 pm
My boyfriend and I have been thinking lately about going farther . Him fingering me and I giving him a handjob . We both are pretty shy about this . But have a really good relationship . We are both also new to doing this . I need some advise about getting fingered ? What position ? I don't really wanna take my pants off , could he just put his hand down my pants or what ?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: Virginity? kysterabc123 answered Monday March 19 2012, 10:19 pm: I reccomend you both laying down,him on his side and you right next to him with your back facing him. Also, you sourta laying down. but you are techanily "spooning" so your bottom body is flat and the top is turned, you can have your head turned towards his whatever comfortable. But, remember it turns him on more when he sees your facial experssions and how you moan and/or if you bite your lip. It will make him want to do more. and anything is fine to wear. i wore jeans all we did was unbutton my pants and he got his hand down there fine. and it felt amazing. I never tried anyother way. But i hope i helped (: [ kysterabc123's advice column | Ask kysterabc123 A Question ]
nascarfan1987 answered Thursday December 15 2011, 12:39 am: You have asked this question THREE times. I'm sorry if my advice wasn't what you was looking for, but repeating the same advice over and over will only irriate other advicenators, and make them not want to answer it.
Here is what I said to you, once more.
To me, the best position is laying down, or sitting on his lap. If you want "easy" access for him to finger you without taking your pants off, Jeans are pretty difficult to squeeze in, to get to 'that' spot. Girls typically wear their jeans a little tighter, so thats why its difficult. Skirts, shorts (blue jean, softee shorts, and type of shorts that are lose around the thighs) and even sweat pants work great. If you begin to get comfortable with taking your pants off, than wear some cute panties, and he can finger you without taking those off; that way would be your best bet.
And I know you didn't ask about the whole hand job thing, but I noticed how you said that you guys were new to it,
a tip for a hand job, make sure you keep it wet and moist. If you do it and its dry for a little bit, it'll begin to feel uncomfortable. So spit on it or on your hands. Nasty I know, but he'll love it!
nascarfan1987 answered Wednesday December 14 2011, 11:43 pm: To me, the best position is laying down, or sitting on his lap. If you want "easy" access for him to finger you without taking your pants off, Jeans are pretty difficult to squeeze in, to get to 'that' spot. Girls typically wear their jeans a little tighter, so thats why its difficult. Skirts, shorts (blue jean, softee shorts, and type of shorts that are lose around the thighs) and even sweat pants work great. If you begin to get comfortable with taking your pants off, than wear some cute panties, and he can finger you without taking those off; that way would be your best bet.
And I know you didn't ask about the whole hand job thing, but I noticed how you said that you guys were new to it,
a tip for a hand job, make sure you keep it wet and moist. If you do it and its dry for a little bit, it'll begin to feel uncomfortable. So spit on it or on your hands. Nasty I know, but he'll love it!
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