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no one has asked me out yet
hey im 12/f. I've only liked two guys since I started middle school and they weren't really "date worthy" because of the group they were in. but, that's not my problem. the thing is, is that most of my friends have had at least 2 bfs since we started middle school and i am one of the only ones who hasn't even been asked out. because the boys i liked were out of "my range" there wasn't really any way any other boys would ask me out. i am pretty sure that some boys like me because i don't dress different or anything, also i am a straight a student so most people know who i am. i guess what i am saying is that i don't really need a bf i just want them to like me and i want to be able to understand what my friends who have bfs are talking about.
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For a 12 year old, you seem very smart. I figured that from what you wrote, "they weren't really "date worthy" because of the group they were in" -- which lets me know, that you know what you want in a guy. Thats pretty awesome for someone young like you. I didn't realize that ti'll I was 15! I'm proud of you!
You know, when I was in middle school, I use to think boys were amazing. I always wanted one to call my own. But I'm 19 years old, and one thing I can tell you is that boys cause two things:
1. Pain
2. DRAMA!
Who likes drama? Lol, not me, and I'm sure you don't either. I'd enjoy focusing on school, and not worrying about boys. You know what I have realized? The second you stop worrying about how to impress a boy, and just stop chasing them. That is the second they come after you. Seriously! Pretty crazy, huh?
Now I'm sure you want to be like your friends, just so you can fit into their conversations when it comes to their boyfriends, but have you heard about the fights? Or how about a break up? Have you seen one of your friends cry from a silly boy? Those are the negative things of wanting a boyfriend.
Now if you really really really reallly want a boyfriend, than...
Is there anything you don't like about yourself? Anything you find "unattractive" ? If you do, than NEVER let that stop you from going after a guy. These guys that you liked, did you ever tell them? You would be amazed at how shy boys are around your age. They are more shy than girls! Sometimes you have to make the first move, but you also have to be prepared for rejection. Not every guy will like you, just like I'm sure you don't like all the boys in school. So if you do get rejected see it as, "Alright, one boy off my list, 4 more to go!" Move on, and keep looking until you find him.
If you need anything else, you know I am always here to help you. Don't heistate okayy?!
Good Luckkkkkk!
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