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You answered my previous question
I dont know if you remember me but on tues you answered a question for me. But me and my ex broke up 3 months ago and dated for 2 years and it feels like im never gonna move on cause I cant stop thinking of him...
Well these feelings have gotten more intense since then cause hes started talking to me more and more lately. He always texts me at really late times though and i dont know if he really means what hes saying. I really dont want to get hurt again but I cant seem to stop from responding. He wants,to hang out while we are both in town on wednesday and im not sure what to do.
Like I said my whole family and friends dislike him for me but I felt so much better when I was with him. For example, ive felt really bad about myself lately and dont find myself pretty anymore. I dont even really care for my personality either. I feel like hes out having fun making new friends while I hold myself back from people. Its like im scared of being judged. Im generally really social and ive had lots of people like me but since the breakup I havent given one guy a chance(except for my stupid mistake-which was mostly done in hopes itd make me forget about him)
Point is, i dont know what to do cause my heart reallywants to see him but I think half the reason is cause im hoping he will try and get back(which he prob will but i dont knowhow it could go anywhere since we live so far and all the,trust,issues) and chances are I will go get coffee with him.
I just dont want to hurt anymore.. I dont want to hate myself and question every convo we have. I cant understand if he wants to get back together because he truley does love me or if he just misses sex. I initiated the break up but he kinda agreed. But he kept saying he just needed to work things out and then he wanted to date me again. Im not sure what to take of any of this :/ am I helpless? :(
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Well, are you wanting to move on, or get back with him? I know heartbreak pain seems unbarable, and it seems like you will never make it through it but YOU WILL. I promise you, actually, I pinky promise you. You just have to figure out which one you want, and stick with it.
But before I continue with the book long advice, lol. How far apart do you guys live with each other? How exactly did he treat you badly? (in your post from Tuesday, I went back and reread it to make sure I was covering everything, and you said he treated you badly, but you was blinded from it)
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