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I like a guy and im not sure if he likes me back
There is this boy I really like. I'm not sure if he likes me. He has a girlfriend but when she isn't around he flirts with me. I'm not quite sure if he is just entertaining himself or if he really likes me. There have been times when he does stuuf to me that he also does to his girlfriend. The only thing is, I am sort of freinds with his girlfriend, so I don't want it to seem like I am trying to take him from her. Please reply if you can help. I am 12 years old and am in seventh grade. I am a female.
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Sorry it took so long to get back to you. Lets see here.
First let me start by saying, How would you feel if your boyfriend was flirting with one of your female friends? How would you feel if one of your friends liked your boyfriend?
Would you get mad or upset? In a situation like this, you have to put yourself in the other person's shoes. He doesn't seem like the type of guy you need, because if he has a girlfriend and is flirting with you; than 9 times out of 10, when you guys are dating, he's going to flirt with other girls as well. I'm sure you don't want that. It isn't fair to you.
But if none of that stuff bothers you, and you insist on going after this guy, than...
Ask him if he likes you. If you aren't comfortable asking in person, you could always ask over the phone, text messaging, in a note, or on computer. If his girlfriend finds out, she will probably get mad, and never talk to you again. She will be really hurt. When you friends with someone, that means in some way, you trust them. So she probably won't trust you anymore.
Is he worth that?
If he is than, go for it. You have to ask yourself,
1. Would I rather have him, and not have her as my friend?
2. Would I rather have her as my friend, and him ONLY as a friend?
Take your time to think about those, because you don't want to lose a good friend over silly boy. Boys will come and go, but friends will always stay.
If you need anything else girl, let me know. I'm here to help with anything and everything!
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