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i really don't know what to do i like being single but i think i might love him again
I need serious help.. I'm so confused and lost on what to do.
Me and this guy Nick have been dating for 13 months. The most serious relationship i've ever had. well we broke up about 3 months ago. Ever since we broke up, i've been just having fun being single. I went to parties and just let loose and have fun. it was a blast. But now he's talking to me again and I think Im starting to fall back into love with him again.. I really don't know what to do. i think i do love him because he can really make me feel special and good, but at the same time I like being single and not worrying about commitment and I could just focus on myself..
Also, a lot of my friends and my parents hate him.. He said he wants to be Facebook official again.. but I'm not sure I really want all my friends to know that we might be back together (if it happens). and plus my parents would be really mad. I know that other people's opinions don't really matter, but it does mean a lot to me. I've made a ton of friends while I was single, and i've told them stories about Nick and they pretty much straight up told me that they don't like him and hated him..
soo idk what to do.. Should i follow my heart (i think) and get back with him because he can make me feel good and nice.. or should I just break it off with him completely because I do like being single and not worrying about commitment and i would feel a lot better if my friends and family didn't know about him again.
help?
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Ummm well if hes hated and no one likes him there has to be a reason. Try to find out why and ask your friends. You should follow your heart:)
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What stories have you told your friends about Nick that they didn't like? After you said that, I get the feeling that your relationship wasn't exactly healthy even if he did make you feel good some times. A guy who truly loves you, is never going to treat you like shit and if he feels like he is he's going to go out of the way to show that he still loves you and be affectionate after an argument or a fight.
I think that people break up for a reason, and once they break up unless it has something to do with commitment issues they should leave the relationship alone. My best advice is don't talk to him, enjoy being single until you find somone special who wants to treat you good and make you smile.
I hope that I was able to help, good luck!
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