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Thnx for the advice you have helped me out alot LostAngel!! <3 I really appreciate it becuz i didnt know what to do or who to turn to. And i am also having another problem but its not about having sex its about me having these strong feelings for my ex more then my current boyfriend! I love ben ore then anybody could, know but my ex is really nice and sweet but he will if he got the chance, he would rape me or force me to have sex with him and Ben would NEVER ever do that to me but i dont know what to do!
I'm sure you will try to help me out as much as you can and I'm sorry I keep asking questions every like day but i have alot of problems and don't know how to deal with them because none of my friends would understand so i am seduced to going online and asking random people! So luv ya and thnx for helping me! <3 and p.s i say luv ya to everyone so dont be freaked out!! <3 ya bye!!
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It's alright, I remember when I was your age.. I had no one to go to..and no one seemed to understand my life. I started at this site when I was 14.. so I've been here on and off throughout the years.
It's okay to have feelings for your ex, it's the one who was your very first boyfriend (correct?) Just don't let these feelings crosspaths with Ben, he's your's now..and your his.
Rape is a serious thing, I would know.. because..well.. my ex almost raped me.. and I had to fight it off.. it isn't an easy thing to deal with..and it messes with your heart and emotional thinking as time goes on.
If you know this guy will do that to you, I would back away from him..and stay far away from him as possible, you do not need that. That's someone who is selfish and just wants one thing, and doesn't think of the outcome of the situation.
Just rememeber you're only 13, you don't need to be dating at this age.. stay young as possible.. because before you know it you'll be outta high school with adult decisions.. and you'll wish you were a kid again.
Do you want the baggage of so much heartbreak when you're 19 and 20, and you go look back as say to you're self "WOW, I am only 19 and I already dated (X amount) of guy in the last 6-7 years.." That's a lot to carry on when you get older.
I know you will make the best decision, you sound as a very bright girl who is just very confused.
I am here for you, if you need anything. It's alright. :)
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