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But he does care about me and he isnt forcing me i want to have it with him but i dnt want it to hurt and if i am bad i feel like he will judge me! He says that he can not live without me and that there is never a second that goes by that he isnt thinking about me. And i when im with him i feel like nothing can hurt me i mean nothing. I love him but i just dont want to get pregnant if i do have sex with him! He is very kind sweet and he would never try to hurt me on purpose he does love me and i love him i just really dont want to pussy out if i dont have sex with him!
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It's going to hurt you're very first time, unless you have been horseback riding since you were 2.. and still it's going to hurt because the skin is still tight.
Again, if he judges you.. then obviously he is only interest in one thing..and that would be sex.
We all feel "when we are with that person nothing will happen", truth is.. it doesn't always last that way.. there 2 guys who have made me feel that way, and one hurt me more (the ex after 2 years together) than the other one did..
Truth is.. I didn't have sex until I was 19.. I didn't do any of that stuff until I was a month short of 19..and I was ready to do it, on my own..and no one pressured me or even brought up the subject. I with a guy for 7 months, someone I have known 5 year's prior.. and he was amazing..I know he was the one just for the fact that he never pressured or brought it up.
To me.. you seem highly unsure.. and it sounds to me as if you are being pressured to it.. just because you don't want him to judge you.. if a guy loves you.. then he would wait and not ask you about sex.
I know you aren't ready to have sex, because you even said you aren't prepared to get pregnant, which again is smart to admit and you that you realize what could happen. From my experience, I had a pregnancy scare at 19, just 2 months short from when I started to have sex.. and to think if I had been pregnant, now at 21, my life would be totally different..and I would not be living the experiences as an young adult. Going to school, working, and having fun with barely any worries.
If you do go ahead to having sex, I would visit your local planned parenthood.. condoms and possible birth control if you can. Remember that even if you are having protected sex, doesn't mean that it is 100% preventable. If you do happen to get pregnant, and he says he will stay by your side.. it's very rare will a guy will stay near by with a child on the way when he's just 14 years old.
If you need anything else, don't hesitate to ask. :)
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